Gift guidelines

If the Diwali dhamaka means shop till you drop, then the Christmas cheer should ideally mean you gift till you go broke. That is however not the case in desi culture; however our gifting habits have been improving with the surging sensex and spending powers. It's the Christian's Diwali, but everyone around seems to be in a mood to celebrate. And give and take gifts. It is not a huge headache if you want to gift someone formally; the beard scratching challenge lies in finding the right gift for your loved one - a gift that can make a mark forever. Outlined below are some simple tips that you can follow to find the best Christmas gift.

1. Plan ahead

Easier said than done, given that there is only two days left to make a choice! But remember that tomorrow is a Sunday. Nothing could be a better chance for you to improve on your shopping skills. Make a quick list of those who matter to you, allocate a modest sum and head. And thank god for the mall next to your house that's causing all the traffic jams. This is the one time that you will need it.

2. Find out the person's interest

Knowing what he/she likes and considering that for your gift doesn't amount to being 'overly sentimental'. (Guys we hope you're listening.) Depending on what his/her interests are, you can get a gift that complements it. For instance, if the person likes dogs, a stuff toy dog or a teddy would be lovingly appreciated in most cases. It is always amazing to know that people always buy the gifts that they like rather than what the receiver would love to receive.

3. Ask the person if you have to

A difficult stint to pull off, because it may amount to unnecessary cajoling and formalities. But it is always worth not being afraid to ask what the receiver thinks of the best Christmas gift. This will help you a great deal in giving him/her something useful and what they really hope to get.

4. Know your budget

Considering the paisa factor and making marks on your pay-slip or financial diary. If you want to gift something expensive like consumer durables or a vehicle, you better plan out the EMIs and loans. Otherwise, decide how much you are willing to allocate for the gift. It's easier when you have decided on a price range for it. It would also make the job easier for the salespersons to assist you at the departmental store or gift shop.

5. Presentation makes the difference

Creative people might agree, that one can make any nonsensical gift look pretty and 'from the heart' if you've got what it takes to wrap it. And if the gift's better than that, it's even more important to give it a package it deserves. It shows the thought that goes into the gift. You may have a great gift but if the packaging is horrible, it does not bring out your thoughtfulness. As for gifts to your boss or other formal relation, remember, this gift is for the 'impression', not the love, right?

6. Personalise it

Again, it is imperative to convey what you think of your loved one this season. Originality in writing notes and tags which accompany the gift is always appreciated. And more importantly, it can make a dull gift look special. Psst…personalising the gift works wonders with some women. Try it on your wife/daughter or girlfriend this time!

7. Gifting 'in person' recommended!

It is always a joy to present the gift personally to your loved one – for it is not only about the gift, but the conversation over some drinks that bond your relationship. It is stupid to avoid meeting someone you're gifting because of some ego tussles or other clashes. Why do you gift then, if that is the case? Unless it is completely unavoidable, do not opt for delivering your gift through a third person or leaving it behind at their home or office.

8. Gift of your presence and time

Sometimes, the best Christmas gift is not even a gift. Stressed husbands of Mumbai, we hope you're reading this. Your wives or close friends may just want to be treated to a sumptuous meal in a cosy restaurant or getaway over the weekend. Quality time could be more valuable to some people than solitaires. And if that person happens to be your wife, you better think of this seriously. Tell your boss to take a hike!

9. Sensitivity recommended too!

You are presumed to know what this person would already like or dislike. So please do yourself a favour by not giving him or her something that could potentially be an object of dislike, such as making a present that reminds him/her of an unpleasant experience, etc. Exercise some amount of research and talk to their family or near ones to ensure your gift might not end up disturbing them. Also, the over-creative ones who want to give 'whacky' gifts this time, make sure they're not looked at by their fathers!

10. Let the price be right

This one really depends on who you are giving the Christmas present to.. It may be appropriate to give your spouse or girlfriend an expensive ring but this can backfire if given to a friend. Who knows, you might gift a music-enabled cell phone to a friend out of glee and his family thinks it's an insult. Also, well, you don't want your friend to feel obligated to return you an equally priced item, do you?

You would have learnt that these tips can be useful for all occasions, and not just this Christmas season. Given the number of malls rising in our city, the gifting habit is going to be around forever. As for now, if you've suddenly woken up to the shock that Christmas is coming and you haven't finished your gift- shopping, fret not, there is hope. Head for the mall at once, if you want your gift speak out for what you are.