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HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND A VERY HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 2008 TO YOU

HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND A VERY HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 2008 TO YOU

HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND A VERY HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 2008 TO YOU

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Winter Tips for Hair, Skin,Hands, Nails,Legs, Lips

Winter is just not about warm clothes, fireside reading, snuggling close to the pillows wrapped from head to toe with a comfy quilt. It is time to battle the cold winds that hampers your body and hair. A little care will keep the wintry troubles at bay.

 

 

Hair...

Before the winter winds can work havoc with your hair, expose your hair to deep conditioning. Since the cold weather causes to dry your hair, massage your hair in aloe Vera juice for a few minutes. This will restore its softness.

You can a lso treat your hair with oil massage once or twice a week Olive oil can work wonders in reinforcing moisture to your hair. Heat the oil before using and allow it to soak for a time lesser than the time you allot for the summer season. Too long a period of soaking hair in oil can get you ill. If you are used to treating your hair with herbal extracts or herbal oil do not soak it for a long time. Herbal ingredients are mostly cooling agents that are more suitable for the summer. Keep away from washing your hair too frequently.

Woolen clothing like hats, scarves and turtlenecks can cause damage to your hairline. Since they can cause breakage, first cover your hair with a silk scarf before exposing it to winter wraps.

It is the appropriate time for split ends to work their way up to the hair shafts. Hence trim your split ends.

Style your hair with a braid, twist or a knot. Try Keeping away from letting your hair open and wild, as the cold winds can play rough on your hair.


Avoid exposing your hair to frequent coloring, streaking, or ironing as they can rob your hair off its moisture and it is advisable to avoid heating appliances on your hair.

Expose your hair to natural drying. Keep away from blow dryers. If you have to use, use one with a hood.

Always cover your hair with a silk fabric to guard it from the chill winds.

Skin...
Your skin texture depends not only on external treatments, but also on the intake. A proper nutritious intake helps in rejuvenating the skin from within. Water plays an important role in keeping your skin alive. A good amount of water helps in retaining the moisture of your skin as well keeping skin disorders at bay. Fruits and vegetables in your daily diet release a lot of water to your system. Primrose syrup and olive oil in your diet also aids in softening your skin.

Use th e paste of ground green gram powder instead of soap to work your way to a soft and supple skin.

Pamper you skin with a little coconut oil before bath to heal dryness and chaps. Use a creamy soap that renders that extra suppleness to your skin.

Moisturizers and cold creams are a must in the winters. Apply some good cold cream on your face before going to bed. Moisten your skin with a good moisturizer or a creamy hand and body lotion. My best buy is ' Jergens' hand and body lotion.

Add a few drops of oil to the water that you are using to bath. This will help retain the moisture lost when bathing. Avoid using very hot water during winter as it can decrease the natural oils of your skin. Instead shorten your bath time.

Hands, legs and nails...
When treating your legs add a few drops of oil in the water that you use to soak them. With regards to hands, try using rubber gloves while immersing them in water. Use a base coat over your nails against the cold weather.

Lips...
A good petroleum jelly will be an effective cover over your lips against the cold weather. Butter is effective in curing chapped lips and renders an extra softness.

So get ready to shield your body against the winter threats.

How to Store Your Food So It Lasts Longer

  • Organize fruits and veggies: We often toss produce into crispers together, but apples and some other fruits give off gas called ethylene that speeds ripening in vegetables. So store them separate, so vegetables don't ripen too fast

 

  • Know which need room temperature: We tend to keep most of our fruits and vegetables in the refrigerator. But cold temperatures can actually damage some produce, like squash, tomatoes and oranges

 

  • Use your own packaging: That flimsy package from the butcher won't protect your meat from freezer burn. Put it in a vacuum sealed or sip lock bag with the air squeezed out

 

  • Protect your dry goods: Dry kitchen products like flour, cornmeal and other grains can attract bugs that make them unusable. Instead, stash them in the refrigerator or the freezer where they will be safe from pests

 

  • Chill your bananas: Most of us keep our bananas on the kitchen counter. But it seems like they spoil almost as soon as they ripen. Instead, store them in your refrigerator once they have ripened. The skin will turn brown but the inside lasts a lot longer

 

  • Shield leftovers from the air: Many of us end up throwing out leftovers because they went bad. To prevent it, don't just cover the top of the bowl with foil or plastic wrap. Instead, transfer your leftovers to an airtight food storage container to keep them fresh

 

So keep it fresh longer. Oxygen damages food, so air tight packaging will help keep things fresh.

 

Can you afford an education loan?

While the oil mafia tried to entice him with bribes to turn a blind eye on fuel adulteration, murdered IOC sales manager S Manjunath refused to waver in the line of duty, despite his own financial constraints.'

A poignant story printed in The Indian Express reveals that, of his modest monthly salary of Rs 25,000, Manjunath was paying Rs 10,100 as EMIs towards two education loans (of Rs 3.5 lakhs) taken to finance his studies at IIM-Lucknow. In addition, three months ago, he had availed of a car loan from his employer (EMI: Rs 1,300).

It feels odd and a little sacrilegious to read about the private details of a deceased person's life. But, in this case, the details are being published to make a point -- that Manjunath could easily have taken the bribes offered and made his life easier.

He had apparently defaulted on the previous month's EMI for the PNB loan, prompting his father to write a stern letter to the son. A letter the son did not live to read...

Till debt do us part

Today, education loans have become a way of life. And that is definitely a step in the right direction.

Without an easily available loan, an IIM education may not have been possible for a middle class student like Manjunath.

But paying back is not as simple as all the banks who say 'Hum se le lijiye (take the loan from us)' would like you to believe.

Because not every MBA graduate gets a fabulous starting salary. Not even graduates from the IIMs. And definitely not, in the case of thousands of students from hole-in-the-wall MBA institutes.

Yet, any and every B-school today is charging several lakhs in fees. The magic solution offered to middle class parents: 'Take a loan.'

Rs 4 lakhs for an MBA course and no one bats an eyelid. Because, there are some things money can't buy -- like an interview call from IIM. For everything else, there are loan schemes. Over 1.75 lakh students nationwide availed of these loans in the last financial year.

Certainly, loans are now easily and freely available. With the change in policy circa 2001, loans upto Rs 4 lakhs don't even require margin or collateral. On such loans, PSU banks charge exactly the same interest as the Prime Lending Rate. Right now, that stands at 10.5 %.

Which is good. But not as good as housing loans that are available at 8-8.5%. Or even car loans that many banks will happily offer at 8.5%. So why are student loans so pricey?

Simply because they are riskier. Historically, banks have been shy of student loans because, even back when fees were far more modest, students have defaulted. To be more specific, they've simply disappeared. And the poor bank doesn't even have an asset to attach.

The problem is more acute in case of students taking loans for study abroad. Those loans are therefore priced higher -- at 1% above the PLR -- and require collateral.

But, now, the government is considering more drastic solutions. PSU banks recently put forth a proposal asking for a bar code or Radio Frequency Identification on passports -- so that students availing such loans can be tracked.

I don't know if it's practical or technically feasible, but it is quite a novel idea!

Think before you...

The point is 'how to finance your studies' is the easy part. But, before joining a particular institute, make sure you have an idea of the kind of salary you will earn on passing out. Most banks offer a six month grace period after which the EMIs begin.

The average salary from the average B-school is about Rs 15,000-Rs 20,000 pm (gross). Ditto for engineers getting into IT jobs. Can you afford to live in Mumbai, Delhi or Bangalore on Rs 10,000 a month (rent, transport, food, bijli, et al) and repay Rs 10,000 as EMI?

Of course, you'll eventually earn more but not right away! A cousin who graduated from a B-school ranked around 25 got a 'decent' job, but found the going tough. The first six months, she was happy enough. Then, the EMI payments started and suddenly every small indulgence became a major issue.

Inevitably, she ended up defaulting on the EMI. And then, hopping jobs twice, lured by a couple of thousand rupees more. I'm not saying this would happen to everyone -- but it's a very real danger!

In the case of MBA placements, it's important to note the fine print. For example, Indiabulls hires MBAs from lesser known institutes as Selling Agents, or Selling and Relationship Agents. The pay package offered to these students is Rs 4.5 lacs pa of which only Rs.1.8 lakhs was fixed and the remaining Rs 2.7 lakhs is 'variable'. This means, it is generally based on your performance or offered as a performance incentive. If your company thinks you are not doing well, it can hold back this amount.

But the worst off would be medical students. Given that they earn paltry sums until they complete their MDs, it makes sense to take a loan only if your dad owns a nursing home or is willing to shoulder your EMI burden for several years to come!

The abroad story

In case of loans for studies abroad, you can borrow upto Rs 15 lakhs (more from private banks). But will you be able to earn in dollars or pounds after finishing the degree -- at least to recover your tuition costs?

If not, are your parents wealthy enough to start forking out the rather large EMIs that will follow?

So be a 'loan ranger' but make doubly sure the country you choose to study in has work permit possibilities. Eligibility for jobs is also linked to what course you are doing.

For example, it may be next to impossible to get work in Australia if you're a media graduate. If you are an accountant, IT professional or secondary school teacher -- professions classified under 'skills shortage' -- chances are much better.

Is going to study accounting in Australia, therefore, a good idea? I would say only if you are turned on by accounting in the first place. But there are folks who think otherwise.

The future

Student loans have long been a fact of life for college goers in the US. Interest rates (linked to their PLR) are lower than in India, but the sheer number of people who take loans (practically every college-goer!) means the overall student loan market is huge.

The happy news for them however is that interest rates on federal student loans have dropped to an all-time low -- at 4.06% in July 2005. And loan payback periods are far longer than the 5-7 years offered to Indian students.

As more and more Indians turn to education loans, I expect we will see better rates and more options. Assuming most of the current loanees pay up and don't spoil the party for future generations!

Choose wisely

So, what am I saying? That loans are a burden to pay off -- so don't bother getting an education? Not at all.

I'm just saying that you should make your choices wisely. The best education adds long-term value -- and you have to be willing to pay the price.

The problem is, not all degrees, diplomas and quasi-degrees/ diplomas are really a value-add. But we live in a culture where people think an 'additional qualification' is definitely an asset. At least it looks good on paper...

But, sometimes it's better to keep that kaagaz kora -- save on those EMIs and write your own destiny!

Secondly, even if you've joined an institute of some repute, be prepared for some amount of struggle in the initial years. And never, ever go overboard on those credit cards banks will queue up to offer you now that you are 'earning'.

Paying off a student loan is painful but unavoidable. Paying 24% interest for things you could do without but bought on credit anyway is just plain stupid. And maybe you do deserve to burn in repayment hell!

 

Planning for your child's education? Here's help

I remember paying Rs 4,000 per annum when I did my engineering. However, when I took admission for MMS, and heard the fees was Rs 25,000 per annum, I could barely keep myself from fainting.

I mean Rs 16,000 for 4 years and Rs 50,000 for two years.

Then came another shocker when the juniors at my engineering college told me that the annual fees were hiked to Rs 32,000. Ouch!

By the time we moved into the third semester of MMS, our next batch had to cough up close to Rs 50,000 per annum for two years of management course.

Circa 2007. Just last week I visited a management institute whose director told me that the fees were Rs 1.25 lakh per annum.

Outrageous, isn't it? But real, too, at the same time.

Just imagine the cost of educating your child when s/ he grows up. If the thought scares you then, perhaps, this is the right time to start educating your child about how important money is and will become when s/ he grows up.

It is exactly for such situations that I have devised a financial plan. In this plan, I am taking a 12 per cent annual rise in cost of education for making financial plans, whereas in four years the cost has gone up five times, implying an annual growth of -- hold your breath -- close to 50 per cent.

If our kids have to shoulder the responsibility of financing their own education then shouldn't our schools start including financial education in our syllabus?

But as long as that does not happen, we have two options: Either to pass the legacy of funding their own education, so that even they end up being in as good (or as bad) a financial position as we are today, when they grow up, OR, educate them about money matters today, so that they are better off financially when they start their careers.

Imagine if they are taught the impact of the formula which they learn in Class VIII for a four-mark mathematics problem.

Consider this formula: A = P (1+r) n

Now let us apply this formula to a routine mathematical problem.

Yash, a standard VIII student got Rs 100 from his grandmother on his birthday. Instead of spending it, his parents taught him how to deposit the money in the bank. Yash deposited the Rs 100 in the bank for 10 years at an interest rate of 8 per cent. How much money will Yash have after 10 years, on his18th birthday?

If we substitute the values from the above question in the given formula, then we get,

P = Rs 100

n = 10 years

r = 8 per cent

Therefore, A = 100 * (1 + 8 per cent)10  = Rs 215.89.

In simple words, the money doubles up in a mere 10 years. Isn't that wonderful? Just replace the Rs 100 amount by Rs 10 lakhs and then perhaps you may find it wonderful.

Of course, the rate of return of 8 per cent taken here for calculations is a very conservative figure. Assume that this money is invested in safe instrument like say a fixed deposit in a government bank.

After all, this money is meant to provide for your child's education and you may not like to play around with it.

However, if you are financially savvy, this money can easily be invested in stocks, mutual funds, insurance schemes that may give you higher returns for a horizon of ten years.

Imagine what wonders could be achieved if your child starts investing Rs 5 every week, right from her/ his Class I (Age: 7 years), till the time s/ he appears for SSC. For the record, a weekly investment of Rs 5 @ 4 per cent per annum will give you Rs 2,944.92 against a total investment of Rs 2,400. These numbers might not sound very impressive, but the underlying concept is definitely very strong.

Financial planners emphasise about the importance of starting early -- if you start the day your child is born, s/ he will have an additional 21 years; tinker around slightly with the investment/ week and the rate of interest -- and you will see the difference!

Neither were we as children taught about how to save money nor are we as adults doing anything to teach the next generation about money. Isn't it time we rectified our mistakes?

For starters, let your child know what are the fees that you are paying for her/ his education, and also let her / him know what the fee was when you were a kid. Ask her/ him to do the math and calculate how much is the percent rise (keep a handy cam ready to shoot her expressions!).

Then ask her/ him to calculate the number of years before s/ he completes her/ his graduation.

Tell her/ him the fees, which you paid for graduation, and hence tell her/ him to calculate the fees, which s/ he will have to pay once s/ he approaches graduation, using the rate of growth, which s/ he has, calculated.

Now ask her/ him how much money should be invested every month and at what rate of interest so that the amount is reached -- and then tell her/ him to start doing it. All this exercise, after all, is meant to teach her/ him and make her/ him implement what s/ he is otherwise learning to score four marks in the exams.

The problem here is our ethos and thinking: Why should our children know how much fees we are paying? We love our children and we will do anything to fund their education -- how financially incorrect.

You were never told about inflation and the time value of money, so today you are under a Himalayan load of loans.

But do you want your children also to be in the same situation?

Nobody's questioning your love for your children, but what's the harm in teaching some money gyan, which will be useful to them in the long run.

While expenses continue to soar, competition is taking its toll. Not everybody makes it to the top of the pyramid, so forget high salaries, and hence a reduction in standard of living.

I wouldn't want my child to lead a life full of financial compromises. Would you?

 

Going for an education loan? Read this

Do you dream of joining a US or UK university to pursue your studies abroad? Or are you the one who thinks that Indian university courses are at par with their peers abroad?

In any case, you will require substantial amount of money to pay for your term fees, tuition fees etc. The cost of education in India as well as in reputed universities abroad has gone up substantially in recent times. Even if you have the talent and the determination to make it big in the academic world lack of financing sometimes hamper your ambitions.

Worry no more. To solve the problems of funding your education a number of Indian banks have come up with innovative loan products that help you in pursuing your dream academic course.

However, as a student you may be confused as to how you go about applying for a student loan, what are the points that you must remember while applying for a student loan.

To begin with, interest rate is one of the most important deciding factors when students approach a bank for an education loan. The interest rate also determines the overall cost of your loan.

Here are a few points that students should remember while approaching a bank for a student loan:

1. Interest rates vary significantly from bank to bank, and will also depend on the amount of the loan. 

2. Most PSU banks have an option to allow you to defer the payment of interest and principal till the completion of the course so that you can start repaying both the interest and principal from your earnings.

However, you always have an option of paying the interest portion of the loan immediately from the month following the disbursal of the loan, and keep paying it during the tenure of the course. The interest is normally payable on a quarterly reducing basis.

3. Some banks charge interest on a daily or monthly reducing balance as well. 

4. The interest rates can be fixed or variable. Under a fixed rate option, the rate of interest for the entire tenure of the loan will remain the same. Under the variable option, the rate is tied to the Prime Lending Rate (PLR) set by the concerned bank, and keeps changing half-yearly or yearly.  

5. Usually, nationalised banks offer variable interest rates, while private and foreign banks offer fixed interest rates. Some banks, like SBI, also give you a choice between fixed and floating interest rates. 

Processing fees

Processing fees vary from bank to bank. For example, PSU banks do not charge any processing fee, while some private banks charge 2.25 per cent of the loan amount as the processing fee.

Margin

The margin is the amount you need to pay from your own funds, while the rest is paid by the bank.

If you need, say, a loan of Rs 100,000 and the bank is ready to finance 80 per cent (Rs 80,000) of the loan amount then you will have to make arrangements for the remaining 20 per cent (Rs 20,000). In this case, Rs 20,000 is the margin amount.

Many banks have a margin for loans, which means that they will provide between 75 per cent and 90 per cent of the total cost of the course; you will have to pay the balance.

The scholarship amount, processing fee (if any) and insurance premium on the Life Insurance Policy (paid by the bank) can be included in the total loan amount for the purpose of calculating the margin.

The margin requirements on education loans are not very rigid. The industry norm is generally 5 per cent for studying in India and 15 per cent for studies abroad, for amounts exceeding Rs 4 lakhs. These, however, are indicative figures, and vary from bank to bank.

The margin money is calculated from time to time on the outstanding balance of the loan. You will be required to bring in this margin money on a year-to-year basis, as and when the disbursements are made on a pro-rata basis.

 

Romantic Messages

You Are Everything I Love
Sweet as a rose & bright as a star, cute as a kitten thats what u are, bundles of joy, sunshine n fun, u are everything i luv all rolled into one.

 

Sail away 4eva
Like a fallen star u fell into my life, u made me smile wen thingz werent rite. If hugz were water id send u the sea n sail away 4eva jus u n me.

 

1000 Ways
1000 words 1 could say, 1000 wishes i could pray, 1000 miles legs could walk, 1000 sounds a mouth could talk, 1000 times ill b true, 1000 ways 2 say i luv u!

 

When u say nothing at all !
Theres a smile on ur face tht lets me knw tht u need me, truth in ur eyes sayin u'll never leave me, da touch of ur hand says u'll catch me whenever i fall, u say it best..when u say nothing at all!

 

 

FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.    

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Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

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Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

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You can only go as far as you push.

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Actions speak louder than words.

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The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.

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Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.

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Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.

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A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.

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If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.

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When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there

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True friendship never ends.

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Friends are forever.

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Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

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Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.

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What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?

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NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)

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Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.

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Most people walk in and out of you life. But only True friends leave footprints in your heart.


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Nutrition tips for kids

Many more children  are being diagnosed with high cholesterol, or as overweight or obese. These conditions can cause many health problems for your child such as diabetes and high blood pressure, both now and as he or she moves into adulthood.

By helping your child eat a healthy diet and exercise regularly, you can reduce his or her risk of experiencing these health problems.

 

How can  help a child eat right?

  ;If you prepare healthy foods for your family and eat healthy foods yourself, your child will eat healthier, too.

Make sure to prepare a variety of foods, so your family gets all the vitamins and minerals their bodies need to function properly.

What are some examples of healthy meals?

 

Breakfast: The first meal of the day is a good time to give your child foods that are high in fiber. Whole-grain breads, cereals, fruit, low-fat or nonfat cheeses and yogurt are also good breakfast foods. Use skim or low-fat milk rather than whole or 2% milk. Fruit juice is usually high in calories and has less nutrients than whole fruit (fresh or canned).

Lunch: Use whole-grain breads and ro lls to make a healthier sandwich. Whole grains increase the total fiber in your child's diet and are less processed than enriched white bread. Give your child whole-grain crackers with soups, chili and stew, and always serve fresh fruit (with the skin) with meals instead of chips or other high-calorie options.

 

Here are some ways to make healthier sandwiches:

  • Use low-fat or fat-free lunch meats. They are good in sandwiches or cut into strips on top of a salad.
  • Buy leaner meats, suc h as turkey, chicken or veggie dogs.
  • Put leftover chicken or turkey strips in a tortilla to make a cold fajita (add strips of raw red and green peppers and onions). Use fat-free sour cream as a dressing.
  • Stuff a pita-bread "pocket" with vegetables, fat-free cheese and bits of leftover grilled chicken.
  • Cut up vegetables such as onion, carrot, celery and green peppers to add to tuna salad. Mix vegetables and water-packed tuna with fat-free mayonnaise or, for a different taste, mix with a fat-free salad dressing.
  • Chunky bits of leftover chicken mixed with fat-free mayonnaise, raisins, shredded carrots and sliced almonds is a great chicken salad. Serve it in a pita-bread pocket. Top it with salsa for a Southwestern flavor.
  • Mix cranberry sauce and fat-free mayonnaise to add to a turkey sandwich.
  • When buying peanut butter, choose an "all-natural" option. For jelly, buy one that 100% fruit and does not contain high fructose corn syrup. This will make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches much healthier.
  • Sliced ham and low-fat or fat-free cheese with mustard is great on rye bread.
  • Low-fat cheese makes a good sandwich with tomato slices and mustard or fat-free mayonnaise on a whole-grain roll.
  • Slice leftover pork tenderloin and top with barbecue sauce for a hot or cold sandwich.
  • Make grilled-cheese sandwiches with low-fat or fat-free cheese and serve them with raw carrot and celery sticks.

What snacks are good for child?

Fruits, vegetables, whole grains and low- or nonfat dair also make great snacks for children. Here are some ideas for ways to serve these foods to your kids:

 

Fruits:

  • Bits of fruit stirred into nonfat yogurt
  • Strawberries
  • Raisins
  • Grapes
  • Pineapple chunks
  • Orange or grapefruit sections
  • Bananas cooked lightly in apple juice
  • Apple slices with all natural peanut butter
  • Dried fruit mixes

 

Vegetables:

  • Carrot sticks
  • Celery sticks with all natural peanut butter
  • Raw broccoli and cauliflower florets with a low-fat dip or salsa

 

Protein:

  • 1% fat or fat-free cottage cheese or ricotta cheese
  • Water-packed tuna mixed with fat-free mayonnaise on top of celery sticks or whole-grain crackers
  • Fat-free yogurt topped with sunflower seeds, chopped dried fruit or a spoonful of oat bran

 

Whole grains:

  • Cereals or cereal bars that are low in sugar and fat, and high in fiber and protein
  • Whole-grain crackers, breads or bagels

 

Sweets and desserts:

  • Fat-free frozen yogurt
  • Juice bars
  • Sherbet and sorbet

Freedom and respect of individuality

"In order for our children to survive in the world, they need a firm understanding and belief in the basic principles of sharing freedom and respect of individuality."
 
There is a saying: Tell me, I'll forget; Show me, I'll remember; Engage me; I'll understand. The adults need to determine what the younger generation is learning. The principle of sharing keeps the youth from being greedy and selfish. The principle of freedom teaches the youth about choices, decisions and consequences.
 
The principle of respect keeps us from playing God and becoming a controller of all things. We need to learn these lessons so we may demonstrate them for our children.

10 Tips For Improving your Wireless Network

1.

Position your wireless router (or wireless access point) in a central location.

When possible, place your wireless router in a central location in your home. If your wireless router is against an outside wall of your home, the signal will be weak on the other side of your home. Don't worry if you can't move your wireless router, because there are many other ways to improve your connection.

Bad router and good router comparison

2.

Move the router off the floor and away from walls and metal objects (such as metal file cabinets).

Metal, walls, and floors will interfere with your router's wireless signals. The closer your router is to these obstructions, the more severe the interference, and the weaker your connection will be.

3.

Replace your router's antenna.

The antennas supplied with your router are designed to be omni-directional, meaning they broadcast in all directions around the router. If your router is near an outside wall, half of the wireless signals will be sent outside your home, and much of your router's power will be wasted. Most routers don't allow you to increase the power output, but you can make better use of the power. Upgrade to a hi-gain antenna that focuses the wireless signals only one direction. You can aim the signal in the direction you need it most.

Standard antenna and hi-gain antenna examples

4.

Replace your computer's wireless network adapter.

Wireless network signals must be sent both to and from your computer. Sometimes, your router can broadcast strongly enough to reach your computer, but your computer can't send signals back to your router. To improve this, replace your laptop's PC card-based wireless network adapter with a USB network adapter that uses an external antenna. In particular, consider the Hawking Hi-Gain Wireless USB network adapter, which adds an external, hi-gain antenna to your computer and can significantly improve your range.

Laptops with built-in wireless typically have excellent antennas and don't need to have their network adapters upgraded.

5.

Add a wireless repeater.

Wireless router and wireless repeaterWireless repeaters extend your wireless network range without requiring you to add any wiring. Just place the wireless repeater halfway between your wireless access point and your computer, and you'll get an instant boost to your wireless signal strength. Check out the wireless repeaters from ViewSonic, D-Link, Linksys, and Buffalo Technology.

6.

Change your wireless channel.

Wireless channelsWireless routers can broadcast on several different channels, similar to the way radio stations use different channels. In the United States and Canada, these channels are 1, 6, and 11. Just like you'll sometimes hear interference on one radio station while another is perfectly clear, sometimes one wireless channel is clearer than others. Try changing your wireless router's channel through your router's configuration page to see if your signal strength improves. You don't need to change your computer's configuration, because it'll automatically detect the new channel.

7.

Reduce wireless interference.

If you have cordless phones or other wireless electronics in your home, your computer might not be able to "hear" your router over the noise from the other wireless devices. To quiet the noise, avoid wireless electronics that use the 2.4GHz frequency. Instead, look for cordless phones that use the 5.8GHz or 900MHz frequencies.

8.

Update your firmware or your network adapter driver.

Router manufacturers regularly make free improvements to their routers. Sometimes, these improvements increase performance. To get the latest firmware updates for your router, visit your router manufacturer's Web site.

Similarly, network adapter vendors occasionally update the software that Windows XP uses to communicate with your network adapter, known as the driver. These updates typically improve performance and reliability. To get the updates, visit Microsoft Update, and then under Select by Type click Hardware, Optional. Install any updates relating to your wireless network adapter. It wouldn't hurt to install any other updates while you're visiting Microsoft Update, too.

Note When you go to Microsoft Update, you have two options: the Express Install for critical and security updates and Custom Install for high priority and optional updates. You may find more driver updates when you use Custom Install.

9.

Pick equipment from a single vendor.

While a Linksys router will work with a D-Link network adapter, you often get better performance if you pick a router and network adapter from the same vendor. Some vendors offer a performance boost of up to twice the performance when you choose their hardware: Linksys has the SpeedBooster technology, and D-Link has the 108G enhancement.

10.

Upgrade 802.11b devices to 802.11g.

802.11b is the most common type of wireless network, but 802.11g is about five times faster. 802.11g is backward-compatible with 802.11b, so you can still use any 802.11b equipment that you have. If you're using 802.11b and you're unhappy with the performance, consider replacing your router and network adapters with 802.11g-compatible equipment. If you're buying new equipment, definitely choose 802.11g.

Wireless networks never reach the theoretical bandwidth limits. 802.11b networks typically get 2-5Mbps. 802.11g is usually in the 13-23Mbps range. Belkin's Pre-N equipment has been measured at 37-42Mbps.


 

FW: //Dil Se Desi// BIRTH OF A 2nd CHILD....Helping Your 1st CHILD ADJUST

 

The happiness and love that your first baby brought into your life is beyond measure, and now you're thrilled to learn you are expecting another child. Although you've been through pregnancy and childbirth before, you now have added responsibilities and considerations in order to prepare for your second child.

 

Fortunately, preparing for a second child can be as rewarding and special as the first time. Helping your older child understand what to expect can lessen anxiety for both of you, and being aware of the changes involved in having a second child is the best way to prepare for this joyous event.

What Will Change?

Bringing about a second child and handling two children can be a bit overwhelming at first . Getting organized before the baby is born is your best bet, even though that might be a bit more challenging than it was the first time around.

 

Because your time will be restricted, you'll be busier - your once organized schedule may be stretched to the limit. Sleeping and meal schedules will fluctuate and will depend on the age of your older child.

 

You may also tire more easily, even before the baby is born, since caring for your older child while pregnant takes a lot of energy. After the birth, the first 6 to 8 weeks can be particularly demanding, because your main job will be trying to get your infant on a feeding and sleeping schedule, while anticipating your older child's needs and changing emotions.

 

One positive change that a second child brings is an increased confidence in your own abilities, knowledge, and experience. That is, the things that seemed so difficult with your first child - breast-feeding, changing diapers, handling illness - will seem like second nature to you instead of a full-blown crisis

How Will It Affect You?

Bringing home a new baby will affect you in many ways - some physically and others emotionally. Increased exhaustion and mild anxiety is a normal occurrence after having a child.

 

The " baby blues" can be a frightening experience, but you don't have to endure feelings of depression by yourself. Talk to your doctor about your symptoms. It's important to differentiate between a simple case of the "baby blues," which usually passes within a few weeks, and postpartum depression, a serious disorder that can lead to mood and sleep problems if untreated. If you begin to feel very depressed or anxious, or have thoughts about harming yourself or your baby, seek the help of your doctor immediately.

 

Physically, you are likely to be sore and very tired, particularly if you had a difficult birth or cesarean delivery. This makes all-night feeding sessions especially tough for you, if you have decided to breast-feed your child.

 

Seeking the help of a postpartum "doula" during the day can allow you to catch up on sorely needed rest and sleep. A postpartum doula is a specially trained woman who cares for mother and baby during the first couple of weeks after delivery.

 

If you work outside the home, you may be unsure about the future of your career. Making a decision about whether to return to your job is an important one; enlist the support of your family and friends when weighing all of your options.

 

Don't be surprised if you feel concerned about bonding with your new child. It may be difficult to understand that you will have just as much love for your new arrival as you do for your older child - but you will. As moms and dads often report, a parent's love somehow doubles when another child is born.

 

You will notice that you have little or no time for yourself during the first few months following delivery. Sleepless nights and everyday tensions can be overwhelming, so be sure to make "alone time" a priority for you. Likewise, you and your partner will notice that you're rarely spending time together, so be sure to have an occasional date once things settle down.

Helping Your First Child Adjust

Your first child may experience a range of emotions, from jealousy to excitement and even resentment. Younger toddlers are unable to verbalize their feelings, and their behaviors may regress after the new child is born. They might suck their thumb, drink from a bottle, forget their recent potty training skills, and communicate using baby talk in an effort to get your attention.

 

Older toddlers and children might express their feelings by testing your patience, misbehaving, throwing tantrums, or refusing to eat. These problems are usually transient, and a little preparation can go a long way in helping your older child adjust to the idea of welcoming a new sibling. A good idea is to play up the role of older sibling. There are a number of things that can help you achieve this, such as:

  • Letting your older child help pick out items for the new baby's room. If your children will be sharing a bedroom, this is particularly important.  
  • Finding a special gift that your older child might like to share with the baby, such as a favorite book or toy, or a photo of the sibling for the baby's room. You might also want to pick out something for your older child too, such as a special chair just for him or her that he or she can sit in while you're feeding the baby.  
  • Arranging special time just for you and your older child. This might involve a trip to the library, grocery store, or simply reading a few extra stories at bedtime. Your partner can help you by caring for the baby during these times.  
  • Role-playing or reading stories to your child that will help him or her understand what is happening in the family. There are several books written especially for toddlers that can help. Check a local bookstore or ask your librarian for specific titles.  
  • Preparing your child for what to expect when the baby comes home. This includes explaining that a new baby cries, sleeps, and needs diaper changes frequently. Assure your older child that although the new baby needs lots of attention, there will still be plenty of time and love for him or her.  
  • Reinforcing your older child's role in the family. Tell your child that he or she will be the "big brother/sister" to the new baby, and let your child revel in this new role. Consider taking your child on one of your prenatal visits or letting him or her be present for an ultrasound. If you're giving birth in a hospital setting, ask about sibling visitation after the baby is born.

The arrival of a new child represents a big shift in your older child's life, so you might want to hold off on introducing other major changes. This is probably not the best time to start toilet teaching, to begin the transition from bottle to cup, or to enroll your child in a program where he or she will be separated from you for the first time. Consistency will go a long way in making your child's adjustment easier.

 

Siblings play a very special role in your new baby's life, so don't leave your first child out of the decision-making. So much attention (baby showers, new furniture, clothes, toys) is lavished on the new baby, making it easy for the older child to feel overlooked. Reassure your child that he or she is as special as the new addition by letting him or her participate in the flurry of activity.

Tips to Help You Cope

There are a number of tips that can help you cope with the added responsibilities of having a second child. Some of them are things you can do before the baby is born.

  • Stock the house with dry foods or quick, easy dinners. If you feel up to cooking, make double portions and freeze them, because finding energy at the end of the day will be difficult once the baby is born. Keep a few menus of take-out food restaurants readily available, including a few that deliver.  
  • Reorganize your laundry room, using one hamper per family member or a basket for each child so it's easier to sort and fold clothing. Laundry is usually the biggest complaint of a new mom - it seems to quadruple when another child arrives, so now is the time to prepare.  
  • If possible, make use of the items you already have on hand (or that family members are willing to share with you) rather than feeling as if you have to go out and buy all new things. Hand-me-downs such as cribs, bassinets, strollers, high chairs, and clothes can help save time and money.  
  • Treat yourself to a few movies, and don't watch them until the baby is born. It will help get you through those late-night feedings.  
  • Stock the car with a diaper bag filled with all the necessary extras so you'll always be prepared. Many mothers keep a toy bag in the car for the older child and a diaper bag with diapers, wipes, and an extra blanket for the baby.
  • Keep a book or toy bin handy in your bedroom, family room, and even the bathroom or laundry room, to keep your children busy for a few precious moments if an unexpected problem crops up.  
  • Ask a family member to spend time with you right after the baby's birth, if you feel comfortable doing so. Not only will he or she enjoy it, but you may be able to get some much-needed rest.  
  • Use babysitting services or a housekeeper, if possible, who can come in once a week for a month or two to help you with chores that are too strenuous and exhausting.  
  • Look to your community or place of worship for support. There are countless programs and classes available that provide activities and social support for families with young children.  
  • Don't forget to take care of your own needs. Pamper yourself, even if it's something as simple as a haircut or a bath with candles and music, to help you relax after a trying day.

Once you and your family members get accustomed to the idea of another child, you can enjoy the many positive aspects of a larger family.

 

 

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